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#RamadanDailyDigest: Etiquette of Spoken And Online Speech - Guarding Our Words (Ramadan Day 19)

On Ramadan Day 19, #RamadanDailyDigest would explain why Muslims should be cautious of what they say, be it online or offline.

The holy month of Ramadan is not only about fasting from food and drink. It is also about fasting from harmful speech. As we reach Ramadan Day 19, Muslims are reminded that controlling the tongue and behaving kindly toward others is a major part of spiritual discipline.

#RamadanDailyDigest: Etiquette of Spoken And Online Speech - Guarding Our Words (Ramadan Day 19)


In today’s digital age, speech includes not only what we say but also what we type, post, comment, and share online. Islam places great importance on responsible communication, kindness, and respectful social behaviour.


Allah reminds believers in the Qur'an(2:83):

“And speak to people good words.”

This command applies to both face-to-face conversation and online interactions.

Why Speech Matters in Islam

Words are powerful. They can heal hearts or cause deep harm.

Prophet Muhammad ﷺ stated in a Hadith related in Muslim that:

“Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day should speak good or remain silent.”

#RamadanDailyDigest: Etiquette of Spoken And Online Speech - Guarding Our Words (Ramadan Day 19)

This timeless piece of advice teaches Muslims to pause before speaking. If words do not benefit others or bring goodness, silence is often the better choice.

Ramadan trains believers to become more mindful of their speech, because fasting is not only physical but also moral and spiritual discipline.

The Prophet of Islam ﷺ warned:

“If one of you is fasting, he should avoid obscene speech and foolish behaviour.”


This means fasting should improve our manners, tone, and attitude toward others.

The Tongue: A Small Organ With Great Impact

Most of the sins we commit originate from careless speech from our tongue. 

Islam specifically warns against:

* Gossip (backbiting)
* Spreading rumours 
* Insults and mockery
* Harsh language
* False statements and testimonies 

Allah states in the Glorious Qur’an (49:12):

“And do not backbite one another. Would one of you like to eat the flesh of his dead brother?” 

This powerful imagery shows how serious gossip and slander are in Islam.

Ramadan encourages believers to cleanse their tongue just as fasting cleanses the body.

The Prophet’s Example of Kind Speech

The character of the Prophet Muhammad ﷺ was the perfect model of respectful communication.

He was known for the following and many other excellent qualities:

1. speaking gently
2. avoiding harsh criticism
3. listening attentively
4. smiling while addressing people

Even when correcting someone’s mistake, he used wisdom and kindness rather than embarrassment. His behaviour shows that good speech is part of good character.

The Modern Challenge: Social Media and Online Speech

In today’s evolving technological world, communication often happens online through:

* Social media posts
* Comments
* Messaging apps
* Online discussions

It is sad to know that digital (online) communication sometimes encourages people to say things they would never say in person. Islamic etiquette still applies online.

Muslims should avoid:

* Spreading unverified information
* Insulting others in comments
* Engaging in online arguments
* Sharing harmful or offensive content

You should remember that every of your posts or messages are recorded just like your spoken words, and Allah will ask on the Day of Judgement.

The Glorious Qur’an reminds believers:

“Not a word does a person utter except that with him is an observer ready to record.” (Qur’an 50:18)

The above verse encourages mindfulness before posting anything online.

Practicing Kindness in Speech

The Prophet of Allah ﷺ emphasised kindness as a key part of faith.

He stated:

“Kindness is not found in anything except that it beautifies it.”

Kind speech can transform all types of relationships. A simple compliment, encouragement, or supportive message can uplift someone’s day.

During Ramadan and beyond, Muslims should aim to increase the following:

1. Words of gratitude
2. Positive encouragement
3. Sincere apologies
4. Respectful disagreement

Kindness in speech strengthens communities and builds trust.

How to Control the Tongue During Ramadan

The sacred month of Ramadan is the perfect training ground for improving our communication habits.

Here are some practical steps to take:

* Pause before speaking. Ask yourself if the words are helpful or harmful.

*Replace negativity with remembrance of Allah. Dhikr keeps the tongue busy with good.

* Avoid unnecessary arguments, especially while fasting.

* Limit time spent on social media. This reduces exposure to online conflict.

* Focus on encouragement and positivity. Use speech to inspire others.

These small changes can dramatically improve how Muslims interact with people.

Teaching Children the Etiquette of Speech

Families also play a pivotal role in teaching respectful communication. Parents can guide children by encouraging the following:

1. Polite greetings
2. Respectful listening
3. Avoiding teasing or insults
4. Speaking truthfully

When children see their parents and other adults practicing kindness and patience, they naturally learn these behaviors.

The blessed month of Ramadan is an excellent time to reinforce these values within the home.

Reflection for Ramadan Day 19

Take some time, say 10-15 minutes today to reflect on your communication habits.

Ask yourself:

1. Do my words bring comfort or harm to others?

2. Am I careful with what I post online?

3. Do I practice patience when disagreements occur?

Even one positive change in speech can improve relationships and bring spiritual reward.

Ramadan Day 19 Final Reflection

Ramadan teaches believers that true fasting is not only about hunger and thirst. It is also about refining character and guarding the tongue. The teachings of Muhammad ﷺ remind Muslims that words carry great weight, whether spoken in person or shared online. By choosing kindness, truthfulness, and respect in communication, believers transform everyday conversations into acts of worship.

As Ramadan Day 19 wants us to remember, let our speech reflect the beauty of our faith and the values taught by the Qur’an and the Prophet of Allah ﷺ.

#RamadanDailyDigest is reminding you to Guard Your Words, Spread Kindness, Strengthen Your Character.



#RamadanDailyDigest is an exclusive content written by Oladele Hakeem Olaniyan and published by Naijaloveinfo during the month of Ramadan.








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