#RamadanDailyDigest: Forging Better Character - What The Glorious Qur’an And Hadith Say (Ramadan Day 13)

#RamadanDailyDigest on Ramadan Day 13 will x-ray while the month of fasting is more than abstaining from food, drink and obscenities. Ramadan Day 13 will reveal while the sacred month of Ramadan is a divine training ground for building noble character. 

On Ramadan Day 13, we reflect on how the Glorious Qur'an and authentic Hadith guide believers towards moral excellence. Fasting disciplines the body, but character reform transforms the soul.

If the sacred month of Ramadan does not improve your behaviour, speech, and manners, then you have missed its deeper purpose.

The Mission of Prophet Muhammad ﷺ: Perfecting Character

In one of his sayings, The Prophet of Allah ﷺ stated:

“I was only sent to perfect good character.”

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This powerful Hadith establishes a core truth: Islam is not just rituals. It is a religion that focuses on refined behaviour.

His wife Aisha (RA) described him by saying:

“His character was the Qur’an.”

That means that every verse of mercy, patience, justice, and humility was visible in his daily conduct. Ramadan, therefore offers us the opportunity to mirror that example.

What the Qur’an Says About Good Character

Allah emphasises moral excellence repeatedly in the Glorious Qur’an.

1. Speak Good or Stay Silent

“And speak to people good words.” (Glorious Qur’an 2:83)

Ramadan trains the tongue. Fasting is invalidated spiritually when speech becomes abusive, dishonest, or harmful.

The Prophet of Islam ﷺ warned:

“Whoever does not give up false speech and evil actions, Allah has no need of him leaving his food and drink.” (Bukhari)

This Hadith clearly shows that character outweighs hunger.

2. Patience (Sabr)

Ramadan is the month of patience.

Allah states in the Glorious Qur'an (2:153):

“Indeed, Allah is with the patient ones.” 

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Patience appears in many forms. When:

* Controlling anger

* Enduring hunger

* Avoiding arguments

* Staying calm under pressure

Every fasting day strengthens emotional discipline.

3. Forgiveness and Mercy

Allah describes the righteous in the Glorious Qur'an (3:134) as:

“Those who restrain anger and pardon people.” 

Ramadan invites us to soften our hearts and release grudges. True strength lies not in retaliation but in forgiveness.

The Connection Between Fasting and Character

Prophet Muhammad ﷺ stated:

“Fasting is a shield.”

What does a shield do? It protects someone - and in Ramadan, fasting protects us from:

* Gossip

* False accusations 

* Arrogance

* Envy

* Backbiting 

* Anger

* Harsh speech

If someone provokes a fasting person, the Prophet of Islam ﷺ advised that you say to the person who provokes you:

“I am fasting.”

This reminder builds self-control and humility.

Core Character Traits to Build This Ramadan

1. Honesty (Sidq)

Truthfulness leads to righteousness. Ramadan encourages self-accountability and sincerity in worship and dealings.

2. Humility (Tawadu’)

Fasting reminds us of human weakness. Hunger eliminates arrogance.

3. Generosity (Sadaqah)

Prophet Muhammad ﷺ was most generous in Ramadan. Giving charity refines the heart and removes selfishness.

4. Gratitude (Shukr)

After Iftar, when the first sip of water touches the lips, gratitude flows naturally. This awareness strengthens appreciation for Allah’s blessings.

Practical Steps to Forge Better Character (For Ramadan Day 13 And Beyond 

Here is your character-building action list:

* Monitor your speech for one full day

* Avoid responding to negativity

* Give charity secretly

* Make Du’a for someone you dislike

* Apologise if you wrong someone

* Smile intentionally at others

You should note that small consistent changes in your behaviour build lasting character.

The Reward of Good Character

The Prophet of Allah ﷺ stated:

“The heaviest thing on the scale on the Day of Judgment will be good character.” (Tirmidhi)

Imagine fasting all month and then discovering that your acts of kindness, patience, and honesty weigh more than your hunger.

You should never forget even after Ramadan and all days of your life as a Muslim that: “Character is an eternal currency.” 

Ramadan as a Moral Training Camp

Think of Ramadan as a 29 or 30-day spiritual boot camp.

It trains:

* The tongue through silence and dhikr

* The heart through reflection

* The ego through hunger

* The hands through charity

* The mind through Qur’an recitation

By Ramadan Day 13, habits are forming. The key is consistency beyond Ramadan.

Self-Reflection Questions for Today as Ramadan Day 14 says goodbye 

Ask yourself the following questions:

1. Has my anger reduced since Ramadan began?

2. Do I gossip less?

3. Am I more patient with family?

4. Have I increased in kindness?

5. Has my pokenosing reduced?

True success in Ramadan is measured by behavioural changes.

The Ultimate Goal: Becoming a Living Qur’an Like The Prophet Of Islam ﷺ 

Prophet Muhammad ﷺ is the perfect Epitome of the Glorious Qur’an. His mercy, justice, patience, and humility were practical demonstrations of divine guidance.

Ramadan invites every believer to:

1. Internalise Qur’anic values

2. Reflect on the prophetic manners

3. Reform harmful traits

4. Strengthen spiritual discipline

You should always remember that fasting without character reform is incomplete.

Ramadan Day 13 Reflection

Ramadan Day 13 is a checkpoint.

Are you simply fasting just to be hungry and thirsty, or are you transforming?

The Glorious Qur’an teaches. Prophet Muhammad ﷺ demonstrates. Ramadan trains. You decide the outcome.

Let this sacred month of Ramadan refine your speech, purify your heart, and elevate your behaviour.

May Allah make us among those whose fasting improves their character and whose character earns His pleasure.

#RamadanDailyDigest is all about Building Faith, Refining Character, and Transforming Lives.

#RamadanDailyDigest is an exclusive content written by Oladele Hakeem Olaniyan and published by Naijaloveinfo during the month of Ramadan.